Remove the PDA from the cradle.
Download and install Activesync 4.1
http://www.microsoft.com/downloads/i...ivesync41.mspx
Follow ALL installation prompts, including PC reset.
Connect your X5, and create a "Standard Partnership".
Once you're that far, all the selections for waht to sync are on the tools/options menus. Also make sure you select "Backup this device at reconnection" - trust me on that one!