Pocket PC Birthdays & SL55 connectivity

hello - please can you tell me if it is possible to link a SL55 with a H4150 - it doesn't have a slice of the irda beam thing at all... not only that but:

birthdays - on the Siemens SL55 i can tell it the date of birthdays for my friends - when i sync it via my computer & then sync my pda & look at a date of my friends birthday their birthday is displayed at the top of the screen with how old they are - amazing & useful - however - how do you set up the pocket pc software to do this? if anyone know how to do this it'll be great - i know that you can program in a "birthday" - but it doesn't come up as i want it to... with it being at the top of the screen the age of the person.

thank you in advance, colin