TNT,
The receiver does not need to go outside the vehicle unless you have a heat reflective windscreen then you may need to do this. Otherwise most folk put it on their front dashboard.
If you go for the Arkon Mount that amplifies sound you will not be able to charge it and connect it to the Tomtom receiver at the same time. Your best bet is the Tomtom car kit which provides the mounting bracket and connecting lead which will charge both XDA and Receiver. The car kit is necessary otherwise the receiver will not power.
If you are worried about the sound quality, you could go for the Arkon Wireless Audio Adapter as shown here -
http://www.totalpda.co.uk/Arkon-SF25...o-Adapter.aspx
Over all the above system is a good buy and very reliable, esp. in London, they even have incorporated the congestion zone!!